I started thinking about what to give up for Lent this year, 2 weeks before today. I couldn't think of nuthin'. Every year I give up swearing. Every year I fail (though I still make an honest attempt). Okay, 'honest' is subjective; I already broke it 5 times today :/ ..but that's how it goes every year, so don't judge! :) I will try again tomorrow. And the next day. And...
When W. and I were talking about it, I asked him if anything came to him for ideas. "Draw every day," he said. I sat and pondered it. If you're not artistic, you're going to think it's a pretty random suggestion. You might think, "What the heck does drawing have to do with anything??" S'ok, I'm not going to judge if you thought that; I almost did there for a second, too. It's not that easy, my friends. To draw.. *every* day.. is a challenge in itself, but since he's also artistic (very much so; I wish I could show you his work) he knew why he was asking me to take it up. I'm not sure I can describe it best, and I'm sure others will have more elaborate and articulate descriptions, but you can get a lot done in your head when you sit to draw, at least for me. You can zone out, you can think about nothing, you can think about everything (kind of the same effect when I bake). Sometimes you even battle demons. Sometimes you want to *avoid* any type of artistry because of said demons. And sometimes you want to welcome it in for the very same reason. It's usually always emotional. You can lose yourself, you can find yourself. There are a hundred reasons why one would want to apply some sort of artistry. My job is to figure out how to apply it to Lent... perhaps how I'll deal with my frustrations (I'm a perfectionist, in case some lonely sole on this planet couldn't tell already) and where I'll turn that energy and how I'll deal with it. I think he knows I need to do this; I've been pretty stressed lately and he's seen the full effects. So what the hey, I'll give it a shot. I have yet to do any today and it's already almost 10:30. Ugh.
I also might be moving before I move. I've decided it's best to downsize; it's the only way it'll help me save money for the move. I can't cut anymore expenses and in fact I've gained some, so I don't have much of a choice. I was hoping to dip into my pension from the hospital when I leave, but it looks that that's untouchable (by law). So.. some major saving needs to happen. I've looked at a place already and it's perfect for what I need. Also, the other girl that lives there (a student from the university) and I got along pretty good. There was a lot of 'signs' and things being 'just so'. Being from the same hometown and likewise half Dutch didn't hurt things, either ;) I haven't committed yet, but I'm getting pretty close. So that's my big news for now. I was going to keep it a surprise, but what the
I can't think of anything else to tell you right now and it's past my bedtime anyways. Meeting my tutor in the morning so I best get rested for a good start to the day.
Hope everyone is well. Please get in touch if we haven't spoken in a while. It's time we have a talk :)