And can I also say, I hate the advice (should a man message me), "Don't answer him right away."
I don't play the waiting game. Mostly because I have a zero tolerance for bullshit. If I have something to say, I'll say it.
Having said that, I don't want a man thinking I'm hanging on his every word and I understand the "needing to wait" crap. But you know what? JUST ANSWER THE EFFING EMAIL!!!
Yes there's a reason for this post. No I'm not going to tell you what it is.